Been there, done that, naptime

Safety Ladder

This year, I’ve tried to offer more helpful posts than not-as-helpful-but-hopefully-still-entertaining-to-some-degree posts. This post will likely fall under Column B. And it’s much more personal than I usually am here. This is not stuff I usually share outside my immediate friends and family because I like my privacy and hate being judged.

But this blog is about my life as a writer, and these past few months have impacted my ability to rub two words together.

Therefore, I share.

If you’d like something helpful, here’s Flex your skills with 5-minute freewriting.

Over the past few months, I’ve been working through one of the worst bouts of depression I’ve had in years. I haven’t been well physically or emotionally, and my creative well ran dry. By the time August rolled around, my well was more barren than Mordor.

My level of self-care went from being proactively seeking new ways to nurture myself and those around me to “Yay, my socks match and I remembered to floss! Naptime.”

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Traveling; what to take, what to take…

Travel Reading

At least twice a year, I get to fly across the country for business. I enjoy these trips, but it never fails that each time, I have the same struggle suffered by bookworms since the invention of travel.

What to take to read?

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Instant Self-care for Writers

Self-care matters, even to LOLcats

Self-care is all the rage these days.  And there’s no shortage of tips and tricks about super-awesome strategies for creating a super-awesome you and keeping your new super-awesome you running like new. And those are all grand ideas.

What I sometimes struggle with is that much of it either won’t work for me or isn’t feasible right that moment. Let’s face it, sometimes you need to feel better now. Like right now.

Go for a walk and reconnect with nature? I live in Seattle. The weather doesn’t always invite you outside. Go to the spa? Yeah, I’ll just tell my boss that I’m leaving work in the middle of the day for a massage. He’s awesome, truly, but no. Just, no.

So, I’ve come up with my own list of instant self-care tips for those of us who need immediate assistance.

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Happy National Rubber Ducky Day 2017

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January 13 is National Rubber Ducky Day! It’s rare that I use exclamation points, so yes, this is exciting!!

Now, I could share a bunch of rubber ducky facts such as they were introduced in the 1800s as children’s toys.

I could cheer them for their charity work because they’re used in rubber duck races all over the world to raise money for worthy causes.

I could applaud them for the impact on research—thank you, Friendly Floatees, for helping oceanographers learn more about how ocean currents move.

If you’re wondering what they have to do with writing, I could share that there are actually two schools of thought the correct spelling (“rubber ducky” vs. “rubber duckie”); the debate rages on.

And if you’re wondering how on earth this post could help you be better at what you do, I could explain the method of problem solving called “rubber ducking” which involves talking out your problem with, you guessed it, a rubber duck. (It’s common in software development, but I’ve found quite helpful in real life, too.)

From the 2007 Rubber Duck art installations created by Dutch artist Florentijn Hofman to the chart-topping, 1970 rendition of Bert and Ernie’s “Rubber Duckie” hit, there’s an endless encyclopedia of rubber ducky facts, figures and trivia I could share.

Giant Rubber Ducky

And I do in some of my previous posts:

Happy National Rubber Ducky Day! (2013)

Happy National Rubber Ducky Day 2014

Happy National Rubber Ducky Day 2015!

Yes, I missed it last year because I’m terrible. My flock will never let me forget it.

If you’re interested, feel free to check them out. However, I’d like to take this year to share why I love them so much.

They’re adorable. It’s hard to look at a rubber duck and not smile inside.

They’re accessible. Unlike hot-ticket-toys, rubber ducks are easy to purchase.

They’re friendly. I have yet to read about a rubber ducky biting someone.

They’re discreet. Chances are your rubber ducky won’t post pictures of you in the bathtub.

They’re diverse. Thanks to the latest advances in toy-making tech, you can find a themed ducky for almost any occasion. And they come in different sizes.

They’re affordable. Buying a standard rubber ducky usually won’t break the bank. Plus, some come in sets.

They bring out the child in you. ‘Nuff said.

But there’s a bigger reason I love rubber ducks.

I buy only those rubber ducks that represent something special in my life.

My first rubber ducky belonged to my beloved puppy, who passed to the Rainbow Bridge several years ago. When I bought it for her, I was hoping that it would make her baths less stressful on her. I was wrong.

100_0078I have another that commemorates my move to Seattle. The one on the right I bought during my first trip to Europe. A group of small duckies mark my getting married. Several that are gifts from loved ones. My rubber duckies mark vacations, anniversaries, loved ones, major life moments.

When I’m surrounded by my flock of special squeaky sweeties, I’m surrounded by memories that make me smile both inside and out.

So, happy National Rubber Ducky Day! I hope you have a good one.

Your Ducky

Book Buying Ban 2017

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Some make New Year’s resolutions; others have New Year’s resolutions thrust upon them. I fall under Column B.

I am under a book buying ban until further notice.

With good reason.

Last week, I re-discovered goodreads.com. I’d apparently created a goodreads account July 2013, but had never gotten around to actually using it for some reason I can’t remember. Then one of my favorite bookish YouTubers set up an account and being the faithful fangirl that I am, I followed her so I could follow her reading lists.

I then discovered the feature that lets me make lists.

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